Canon 31: Pastoral Sexual Ethics
31.1 From
ancient times a penitent or individual seeking pastoral care and
advice willingly puts themselves in the care and trust of priests
and pastors. This sacred trust is given not to the man or woman, but
the church cleric as an earthly representative of our Savior Jesus
Christ and his apostles. This trust is a sacred and honorable duty
to be maintained by the cleric. Breaking this trust is an act
unconscionable to the Church as the Body of Christ. When a cleric
breaks this sacred trust, they break the Body of Christ in this
world.
31.2 A cleric
is allowed to seek an intimate relationship, and within that context
of a consenting relationship engage in conjugal relations. All
clerics are strongly encouraged to ask their superior before
engaging in any behavior about which they have any questions.
Clerics of Evangelical Catholic Church are not required take a vow
of celibacy. As St. Paul wrote "Now to the unmarried and to widows,
I say: It is a good thing for them to remain as they are, as I do,
but if they cannot exercise self-control they should marry…." (I Cor.
7: 8ff) A cleric in the Evangelical Catholic Church is called to
responsible sexuality in which a person is neither used as a means
of sexual gratification nor sexually objectified, but seen in the
personal reality that God made them: as a son or daughter of God and
a brother or sister of Jesus Christ. Conjugal relations must occur
within the context of an adult consenting relationship. All physical
relationships by an adult with a minor are illegal and grievously
immoral, and immediate grounds for removal of clerical faculties and
dismissal from clerical state or lay leadership in the Evangelical
Catholic Church. Sex with a minor is never consensual. The
Evangelical Catholic Church forbids any violation of this Canon. Any
cleric or lay leader who violates this Canon and is reported to
Church authorities as doing so, will be reported to the civil
authorities for appropriate investigation and follow-up.
31.3 When
abuse by any clergy of the Evangelical Catholic Church is reported
or discussed in the confines of the Sacrament of Reconciliation,
that Sacrament is inviolable and no matter brought up in that
Sacrament will be divulged to any person or authority by the priest
Confessor giving absolution. The penitent making such statements and
allegations in the Sacrament of Reconciliation fully accepts the
limitations placed on the Confessor by the Church and may not seek
civil, legal, or ecclesial damages when no civil report in made.
31.4 A cleric
may not at any time engage in a romantic or conjugal relationship
with any person who currently comes to that cleric for pastoral
care. If either party realizes that the desire for a deeper more
intimate relationship exists, the cleric must establish professional
boundaries and follow professional ethics and refer the individual
to another cleric for pastor care.
31.5 Any
cleric who is accused of sexual impropriety with any person in their
care shall immediately be put on a Leave of Absence. When and until
such times as they are cleared of the charges through due process,
be it legal, medical or psychiatric, they lose the use of public
faculties and cannot portray themselves as a cleric of the Church.
If after being accused of and found guilty for sexual impropriety
with a person under their care the cleric shall be automatically
suspended from all duties and their faculties revoked. All efforts
shall be made to provide care of the souls to the individual and
former cleric. The cleric involved will be responsible for any and
all costs involved in resolving this matter since they knowingly and
willfully violated this Church Canon.
31.6 For the
purpose of this Canon, a cleric is defined as any minister of the
church. This includes: bishop, priest, deacon, professed religious,
Candidate, volunteer or lay leader.
31.7 In a
person of the age of consent, sexual misconduct or impropriety is
defined as any unwanted physical touching, language or behavior with
another person then that person has asked for that behavior to
cease. For the purpose of this Canon any inappropriate touching,
abusive language or behavior as well as exposure to pornographic
behavior or pornographic media are considered grounds for the
suspension of the cleric and removal of their faculties. In persons
under the age of consent any inappropriate touching, language, or
behavior as well as forced exposure to pornographic behavior or
sexual acts is illegal and grounds for immediate dismissal from the
clerical state in the Evangelical Catholic Church. Any such
allegations against a clergy person by a minor or their legal
guardian must be reported to the proper civil authorities. The
cleric involved will be responsible for any and all costs involved
in resolving this matter since they knowingly and willfully violated
this Church Canon.
31.8 Any
evidence of sexual or physical impropriety with a communicant must
be investigated and fully addressed before Incardination can occur.
This includes legal findings, psychotherapy by a third party and
inpatient treatment if necessary. If psychotherapy has occurred the
applicant must release the findings of the psychotherapist to the
Bishop Ordinary.
31.9 As a
public representative of the Church, a cleric is advised that their
actions speak louder than words. All clerics of the Evangelical
Catholic Church acknowledges that they publicly witness a reality
larger than themselves, and so must be aware of the philosophy of
the organizations and clubs to which they belong and especially in
which they hold a leadership role. All clerics of the Evangelical
Catholic Church must not hold nor take a leadership position in any
organization or club that endorses, openly or implicitly,
licentiousness or unbridled and degrading sexual behavior.